Tuesday, January 03, 2006

traits vs. looks

Lately,
I've been REALLY finding myself more attracted to guys who are cute or "have their own look" but are great people as opposed to fine guys who are just cool! Is it just me (and my sister) or is there just something so incredibly SEXY about a guy who can hold a conversation intelligently? There's something about someone who knows WORDS and uses them correctly and thinks that white t-shirts are to be worn as UNDERGARMENTS only! (well, for the most part. Nothing wrong with it, every NOW and again, as a part of the outfit!) Whoo! Give it up for the man with an education who isn't afraid to let people know that he has one! YES! And a heart for the people, a philanthropist, will just get me EVERY time! Even my latest celebrity obsessions...oops, I mean, crushes, reflect my new attitude! Is it because I'm getting older? Or is it because i'm looking for a husband now...as opposed to just a boyfriend like when I was a little younger?

2 comments:

PhillyPhile said...

Altough I have never been one to have a crush on the popular one. I too find myself more attracted to people with better qualities versues better looks. I have a soft spot for someone with vision, drive, and a giving heart. I think it is because we are getting older and what becomes important to us changes. ie I want to be with a man who treat me like gold even when we feel like BELCH.

Ms_Kenesha said...

Yay for being a grown-up, cuz honey what is cute at 19 is not so cute at 26. You have your own place, GOOD YOU SHOULD! You have your own car, GOOD YOU SHOULD! You don't use slang every 5 seconds, GOOD YOU SHOULD! If a guy can't say any of those things at 25+, err umm, I'll pass!