tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16742052.post115264248108153180..comments2023-05-03T12:05:08.956-04:00Comments on Random Spewings: The Real McCoyTonyettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09701651294305220486noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16742052.post-1155135114556839402006-08-09T10:51:00.000-04:002006-08-09T10:51:00.000-04:00LOVE the Carrie reference, Mama K!! And yeah, I'm ...LOVE the Carrie reference, Mama K!! And yeah, I'm just trying to prevent that whole "you've changed" speech!Tonyettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09701651294305220486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16742052.post-1154545220624456802006-08-02T15:00:00.000-04:002006-08-02T15:00:00.000-04:00This is wonderful and to meet someone who loves yo...This is wonderful and to meet someone who loves you, the real you, you MUST do this. I never thought I was being fake in my relationship with my now husband, but he recently told me that he thought I was much more "together" when we first starteed dating. At first of course I was mad that he said that, but I realized that I was putting up more of a facade, IMO it was to keep myself from getting hurt, who shows their scars on the first date? Actually I did do that once and we dated for like a year and some change, but it ended bad because he couldn't handle WHO I WAS. And at the end of the day, that's what everyone needs someone who can handle who you are...STRAIGHT NO CHASER.<BR/><BR/>From the illustrious Carrie of SATC:<BR/>"But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous."K.W.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13973159304326750620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16742052.post-1153950159190861792006-07-26T17:42:00.000-04:002006-07-26T17:42:00.000-04:00Thanks, Jarred! Well...I'll do what I can to get t...Thanks, Jarred! Well...I'll do what I can to get the other single members of my gender to get on board! How is that? ;--)Tonyettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09701651294305220486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16742052.post-1153917787678789542006-07-26T08:43:00.000-04:002006-07-26T08:43:00.000-04:00Good for you!! I'm glad you got this revelation. N...Good for you!! I'm glad you got this revelation. Now if only the remainder of the females out there would get it.......Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16742052.post-1153339281303997572006-07-19T16:01:00.000-04:002006-07-19T16:01:00.000-04:00I'm glad you feel me, Toya! I'm just in a place wh...I'm glad you feel me, Toya! I'm just in a place where I can't be anyone but ME!Tonyettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09701651294305220486noreply@blogger.com